The Decision Factor.

Initiative & Leadership.

The ability to make a decision is seldom come. The problem arises when an individual is not decisive. Why is it hard for a person to give a simple "yes" or "no" answer? I've pondered that question numerous times. Yet, I have also in the past, been in situations where "maybe" was a sufficient answer. Probably because it is an easy way out or because I really didn't know what I've wanted.

But I have learned to give clear answers. The myth people have with decision is that they think it's permanent. Decision is not an indelible act. If something doesn't work, decide another route. Our minds have the tendency create all kinds of false pretenses. Be conscious to this and your self awareness.

But, is it worth it to endure trivial matters when a person is not decisive? Probably not. Try not to get upset and put yourself as the victim because repeated frustrations and disappointments are a reflection of misunderstandings and presumptions.

Remember to focus on the things that truly count in your life.